One step at a time. Get the rental setup. Thrift store things if needed. Kids beds and desks before your things.

Do research on "Right of First refusal" I would push for this as part of the path to 50/50.

Look into local fathers rights groups.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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