Sandi Blu and Joe

I just want to say thank you for writing this all down

I think the LBS has a fantasy

When the one who left comes back

There will be this wonderful reconciliation and happily ever after

The reality it is another roller coaster with different twists and turns

Shout out to Blu for explaining this so explicitly

There is one thing I would add to / emphasize about Sandi’s list:

This is not necessarily linear

And sometimes you think you are one place on the map

And then you realize a few weeks later you are someplace else

Best wishes to all


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving