So fairly good day today, until now. I woke up at 6:30 this morning right as the wife was coming home, didn't interact. Got myself together and loaded some tools into the truck and went to a friends house to work on his car. He's got a blown head gasket. (Big job, but hey it'll keep me busy.) We went hunting around for the parts with no luck, so ordered them online. Then started tearing down his motor. Got a bunch done, then after hanging there for about 8 hours headed home.

Got home and the wife asked where I was all day, I simply said "out", she persisted with "out where", I responded "just out", then silence. She then asked if I was going to make dinner, I said not sure, I'm pretty tired and need a shower.

A hour goes by I take my shower, and go relax at the computer for a bit. Then she bursts out, I guess I can't count on you for dinner now. (I didn't cook friday, and was at the gym Saturday, and now today. She then goes on to say that she can't trust me. Things went kinda sideways from here, no yelling but I acknoledged how she felt with the trust and owned up to my mistake for that, but she persisted... ugh...

But next weekend will be good, got plans all weekend. Saturday going to a concert with my mom, sunday going to busch gardens with a friend for his daughter bday, then monday back to same friends house to finish working on his car.

Last edited by mikeyb; 02/04/19 11:55 PM.

M(32) W(30)
Together 12yrs
Married 2yrs
ILYBNILWY 11/23/18
EA Discovered 3/20/19

In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19
W Moved out 3/20/19
M Moved out 5/31/19
W Filed for D 3/3/2020