I'm looking at this as a winnowing process. Get rid of the chaff, guys that I have nothing in common with, and see about social and other compatibility issues before I start the "intimate interview" process. Last time it didn't work very well, but life was different 18 years ago and I hope that I'm wiser now.
How do I know? It's been eons since I've dated much less anything else.....Might have to have several interviews to see if the attraction is there and if he is adventurous or not..... I won't know until I finally decide to give it a go, will I?
