This is the 3rd time she’s said something like this—denied OM, doesn’t want to date blah blah blah blah.
I wonder if next time she brings this “oh I don’t know if I want to date / find someone” I should just up and call her on it—say something like “we both know that’s not true.”
My WW said the same things - "Oh, you'll find someone so easily" - "I don't know what I want (regarding a new relationship)" - etc.
Less than a month after the BD, she told me she was interested in a coworker of hers (this admission is apparently atypical for the forums, but inline with my W), but later stated they are only friends. They're full-blown dating at this point.
My point is, if you feel like sh!t is shady, it probably is. If she is saying things to push you towards finding someone, it's probably done from a place of guilt.