NoMojo,

I can't resist an opportunity to post something. Especially when you mention me in the beginning.

I absolutely love women who carry themselves with a confident, sexy attitude regardless of their size. It's really cool to see a woman who is clearly outside of the cultural/media norm carry themselves this way. It's like they are saying "dammit, I might be a big gal but I'm not going to let it stop me from dressing sexy and having some fun".

To respond to somebody's post about turning the tables on men, I must disagree (in my case). I am open to suggestions. I've got a little roll of fat around my belly and hips that will not go away despite an enormous amount of exercise I get. My entire body is lean and fit except this one area. I keep saying I want to get it surgically fixed and my W keeps telling me I'm crazy. If she said..."that's a good idea", I would do it and be happy about it. SuperDave got a nosejob because of his W's request and said he was glad now that he had the "push". If my w wanted me to get an "enlargement", I would (if I could afford it) even if it wasn't something I really wanted. Somewhere in recent history people started yelling "never change yourself for him....change for yourself". The spirit of that is this..."if you don't want to do it, then don't...period. But if you really don't care one way or the other, then what the hell...do it. It will make him happy and might make you happy too".







Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time -Steven Wright