Quote: When I start feeling better about myself and project less of a "frumpy" image, I do get attention and it is harder to be content with my LDH and this is kind of scary. ______________________________________________________
I know exactly what you mean NMB. I dealt with this for a while. A few years ago, the doctor got me back into the weight room to overcome some back trouble. We were having our roughest time while I was pumping up. It was tough because you have to focus on your body to get/maintain the motivation to change it. I started getting more attention everywhere except home. My W didn't act at all pleased at the changes because it made her more unhappy about herself.
But I kept at it and now it's not an issue. It's just the way things are now and you learn to deal with life as it is. You'll find the same thing to be true. And you can do it even if your H loads the house with junk food!
