LOL Don...I for sure definitely want to meet her and she initially wanted to meet me as well. When I said "hey let's do dinner this Saturday, blah, blah" she said that weekend would not work for her...then it was we should get to know each other before you trek up here. As I have custody 50/50 that punted us schedule wise to at the earliest next week.
At this point, it's a moot point really. I don't believe it's too soon and it for sure wasn't me not wanting to meet her. It went off the rails in a weird way when I didn't stick to just saying "let's meet" and if she declined, politely moving on from her.
Given the current radio silence between us, unless she reaches out to me this exp is over and done with in my mind.