Into The Great Wide Open

[DonH]

Okay a few things here, she is TWO HOURS away - not two days away. If you can't meet a single time due to this distance you had no business even starting this. Thing is I don't think it's the distance - I think that's your excuse for not meeting. Two hours dude, just drive there. It's going to go like it's going to go. If you're not ready - which I'd say is a strong possibility - that's fine. It may well be too soon. If not simply tell her "we may have had a misstart here, how about I take you to dinner and let's just meet - no pressure, just a fun dinner. When are you available?" Just do it. If she doesn't want to meet then you have your answer. If she does, go meet her and see. If you leave at 4 you can meet her at 6 hang out for a few hours and you can be back home by 10 or 11 at the most. You'll have many more answers after this. I'm just not sure you want these answers. You and her would not be the first to have an electronic only R - not that this is good or heathy but it's certainly more common than many people think. I just think all of this is too soon yet and that's why it's gone as off the rails as it has.