Stander...yep, as I say I feel like lost the CHANCE with her. The deal is given we are long distance she was interested in getting to know me more by text first which is counter to what you've just said and I've read. Basically we should have had a quick convo to introduce and then agreed a time/place to meet ASAP. Instead we got a text relationship started and I got wordy and perhaps came off needy.

With her not calling and me basically not texting now, I think we're at a standoff. If I start texting again, that makes me look needy. If I leave it alone, even with i'm attracted to her, that MAY be the end of whatever this is and I'm ok if that's the case. I guess if she's not interested in a meet up ASAP to see what we think of each other, then I'll just shut it down and move on along. If she was local, this wouldn't be an issue as it would be set up the date and if not, walk on.


Me:34 W:40
D1:4
M:7 T:8
BD:3/18
D Final: 6/19