The #3 thing on his list of NEEDS is attractiveness? So the basics are food, oxygen, and attractiveness. All forms of life stop unless the woman looks like Cindy Crawford.
It may be #3 on an average guy's list of desires. But for heaven's sake, if a guy isn't attracted to a woman who loves you and wants you, he has some hang-ups he needs to get over. Stop looking at the magazines and stare lovingly into your wife's eyes.
