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Re: Making sense of nightmares JujuB #2835705 02/04/19 01:56 PM
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kml Member K Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 18,913 Likes: 317	I feel like the way I love now is different - but not in a bad way. I'm not looking for the intense validation of young love - that "omg he picked ME" stuff. Now I feel if someone doesn't love me just the way I am, I'm not interested. And the love I have for others is different - it's clear-eyed. I see their flaws but love them flaws included. I can love them for existing in the world even if they didn't choose or weren't capable of being a lifetime love with me.

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Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	11/12/18 06:53 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JellyB	11/12/18 09:51 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	11/27/18 07:41 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	focus22	11/27/18 08:27 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	11/28/18 05:09 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	focus22	11/28/18 06:05 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	kml	11/28/18 06:06 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	focus22	11/28/18 06:40 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	kml	11/28/18 08:32 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	focus22	11/28/18 11:13 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	11/28/18 10:32 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	focus22	11/28/18 11:46 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	EyeTie	12/21/18 05:51 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	12/24/18 07:31 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	12/24/18 07:36 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Zues126	12/24/18 02:54 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	12/30/18 10:38 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Ginger1	12/24/18 03:35 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	12/30/18 10:00 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Ginger1	12/31/18 01:48 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	01/03/19 11:28 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	devvo	01/04/19 01:01 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Vanilla	01/11/19 09:41 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Ginger1	01/04/19 01:34 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	01/04/19 11:54 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	devvo	01/05/19 09:23 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	EyeTie	01/22/19 07:51 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	01/22/19 09:55 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	01/05/19 10:53 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	01/10/19 01:23 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Dawn70	01/22/19 02:12 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	DonH	01/10/19 06:14 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	01/11/19 02:34 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	01/22/19 10:02 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	01/23/19 02:55 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	AndrewP	01/23/19 04:15 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Dawn70	01/23/19 06:08 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	kml	02/04/19 02:05 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	kml	02/04/19 02:27 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/04/19 03:05 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	bubbs16	02/04/19 03:41 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Dawn70	02/04/19 02:09 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	TBSakaJ9	02/04/19 12:54 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/04/19 01:31 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	kml	02/04/19 01:56 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	bubbs16	02/04/19 02:30 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JulieH	02/05/19 02:34 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/16/19 11:35 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	TBSakaJ9	02/16/19 11:44 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/16/19 11:56 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	TBSakaJ9	02/16/19 11:58 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/17/19 12:06 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	TBSakaJ9	02/17/19 12:36 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	AndrewP	02/17/19 01:25 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	TBSakaJ9	02/17/19 04:09 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	DonH	02/17/19 05:05 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/17/19 09:04 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	AndrewP	02/18/19 12:00 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	kml	02/18/19 03:43 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Ginger1	02/18/19 11:23 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Ginger1	02/18/19 11:47 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	TBSakaJ9	02/18/19 01:21 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/18/19 01:49 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	AndrewP	02/18/19 03:54 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	DonH	02/18/19 09:38 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	TBSakaJ9	02/18/19 02:17 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	LH19	02/18/19 03:00 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/18/19 03:22 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	LH19	02/18/19 03:35 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	TBSakaJ9	02/19/19 01:47 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Ginger1	02/19/19 11:18 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	TBSakaJ9	02/19/19 12:37 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Dawn70	02/19/19 05:36 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	rexgm	02/19/19 05:46 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/20/19 12:30 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/22/19 11:46 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/25/19 12:58 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Ginger1	02/25/19 11:28 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/25/19 02:18 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/28/19 03:55 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Dawn70	02/28/19 06:00 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	kml	02/28/19 06:48 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/28/19 07:09 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	kml	02/28/19 08:11 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	02/28/19 08:35 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	TBSakaJ9	02/28/19 08:41 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Ginger1	02/28/19 10:30 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	DonH	03/01/19 12:04 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	03/01/19 02:47 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	DonH	03/01/19 07:12 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	03/01/19 10:59 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	devvo	03/02/19 06:32 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Ginger1	03/02/19 12:38 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	03/02/19 02:11 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Fogg	03/02/19 06:56 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	Pax_luv	03/02/19 03:47 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	03/02/19 04:04 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	03/02/19 04:17 PM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	03/04/19 12:54 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	TBSakaJ9	03/04/19 12:58 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	JujuB	03/04/19 01:06 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	TBSakaJ9	03/04/19 01:10 AM
Re: Making sense of nightmares	job	03/05/19 01:13 PM

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