IMO....I will find love again but I don’t think it will be in the same way. The love I had for my Xw was innocent, naive love. The i didn’t think you could divorced without talking about it love or working together through our issues. I am much more aware now and I don’t think I would allow myself to get comfortable again. I will add when I am on dates I do not think about my Xw. I will say though that the first time I held hands,got touched or was with someone other than my Xw that was a little weird. I am still getting adjusted to that.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018