Just remember NOT to lose your temper at ANY point. She will try to portray herself as a victim and try to gain sympathies from the judge. You know of course she is being fake AF, bu you cannot go and tear her up in front of the judge. As a military man I know you are aware (and required) to be groomed and dressed to a T. Make the best possible impression on the judge, be calm, collected and rational.
Best of luck today, and let as know how it all goes.
