When you fall in love and get married, you are marrying the qualities of that person on that day. If you allow those qaulities to change, you are putting your marriage at risk. Now I believe that most people allow a little wiggle room her, gain a few pounds or wrinkles, so what. It is the MAJOR changes in our qualities that cause problems. That may be gaining 50 lbs, or wearing glasses instead of contacts, or getting flabby instead of toned, or changing from HD to LD. Now we are talking changes that the other spouse did NOT sign up for. Couples that change this drastically are in for trouble.
