The argument against it is simple:

-she sees you in the friendzone
-she expects you to do errands for her and take care of those needs
-she is sleeping with OM
-she doesn't think you have the balls/ability to find someone else
-it might wake her up a little
-simply put, your marriage is dead right now

I'd get out and about with some buddies in places where women go too. It will be good for you to see there is life after your W. That there are women interested in you who will treat you better. This kind of confidence is what you need. It will feel like a total change and other people will sense it.

My good internet friend Steve (haha) has a differing opinion, but I think that wearing that ring solidifies you as plan B and brings up painful stuff that you'd rather not think about.

We'll see what anyone else thinks about it. How are you doing this weekend?


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.