Her mom has been helping us better manage our finances, I am going to meet with her today. She knows the situation going on at home. But I have a few things to discuss with her about the budget. Such as setting money aside for me in the event I do have to move, I found some cheaper car insurance, and am thinking about separating our food budget. This way if the W chooses to feed her friend and her kids she will be doing so with her own money and not mine. Currently the way we are set up is I get $150 in my account every 2 weeks, primarily for gas (100 miles a day) and she gets $300 in hers to cover her gas (30 miles a day) plus our groceries/misc. The rest is in another account for the household bills, and savings. May try to go $300 to my account and $150 to hers. Allowing $100 each for groceries/misc items every 2 weeks. Then whatever she chooses to do with her money is her business
I say $300 to mine and I'll start driving my truck since she seems to hate that I drive her car to work
Thoughts?? if i did this it wouldn't come into effect for another 2 weeks
M(32) W(30) Together 12yrs Married 2yrs ILYBNILWY 11/23/18 EA Discovered 3/20/19
In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19 W Moved out 3/20/19 M Moved out 5/31/19 W Filed for D 3/3/2020