Ginger...LOL honestly I know you aren't! BUT at the same time I DO appreciate what you are saying AND I am taking in what you're saying. There was a part of me that was like "Dang Ginger is kicking my A!" but from being on here a year knowing how we try to help each other AND that I need a good kicking from time to time...I know your words come from the best of intentions to help me out so no worries!
Thing is right now...no matter what comes of this experience, I needed it and I've learned alot from it already. Specifically:
1. Young, pretty ladies are attracted to me 2. I'm attracted/interested in other ladies 3. I've learned how to manage my texting 4. I've gotten some exp being a single Dad while talking to new ladies 5. From my WW sitch and detaching/GALing, I've become more alpha in this new situation. She has stopped talking, but I'm not pursuing and am totally cool just doing my own thing no matter what happens with her. 6. I've learned how I need to be less open book and more mysterious about me when meeting new ladies. 7. How to grow attraction by being less available
So I know, long distance and D4...snowball chance in H on this one, but now I'm thinking no matter how this turns out, the experience is one I needed to maybe prepare me for a more realistic someone next time. And, given I'm in no rush to get back to being married or anything like that, if she and I did meet up and had some fun, that would be a positive to me as well. She and I both were very much aware of the distance making anything serious HIGHLY difficult.
