Originally Posted by ballast
TF no date set for two reasons 1) she's 2 hours away and 2) the 1st time when I didn't have D4 she already had plans.

With distance and my custody with D4, limits the when a bit.


I’m really not trying to bust your balls and I’m only speaking from experience.

Why would you pursue a situation like this? I’ve put myself in the same exact spot and it doesn’t work. Especially When young kids are involved. And a younger partner .

You can even have a first date. And I imagine the second is going to be super difficult too.

I know I seen the mean woman deflating you here, but if I could help one person learn from my experiences and save them some grief, I’m sure going to try.