Remember, emotions come and go like the tides. When you realize that it will pass or that something will bring those emotions back you may start to manage them better. And time. Time will certainly help.

If she comes dropping bombs on you about things like moving people in or out, just tell you'd like to take some time to think on it.

As for the boat, talk to a lawyer. If she sells the boat, I'm sure the proceeds are marital property. You should be able to figure it out from there.

She can't figure out what you're doing. You don't have to tell everything you're doing too, it sounds like she's just going to shoot you down anyways.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.