Mojo, One thing I found when I was losing weight after baby #2 was that you will just KNOW when you are getting to a good point. I too was deathly afraid of losing my grip on the weight loss and having it turn into an eating disorder, even though I have NEVER been prone to anything like that, ever! I love to eat after all. But I was becoming so obssessed with weight loss as a way to improve intimacy in my marriage that I was losing my sense of reality. Plus, H is not the type to give positive feedback about my body or my efforts to get and stay in shape so I never knew if I was on track or not.
However, I knew when I was getting in shape just by the reaction of the public at large. I started getting looks and comments from people I knew. I felt good in my clothes and no longer picked my body apart. Part of it was that I truly WAS to a size that was good on me and part of it was that I just started to relax about it. I realized that me being slimmer was not a magic bullet for his desire and once that disappointment faded, I got on to the business of liking myself and changing for ME. It was not easy to go from literally loathing myself to thinking HE is the one missing out (and really believing it) but it did happen.
Keep on with what you are doing and I'm sure you already look fantastic!
