My WW mentioned running away and moving away so many times right after BD it was unreal. Your problems will still exist even if you, both of you, or he moves.
I agree. My marriage counselor advised me that his coping mechanisms seem to be drinking and avoidance. And I guess in a way I'm running away too because he indirectly asked me to leave.
I also think that his issues, whatever they may be that are causing his behavior, will still exist for him regardless of where I am. He thinks me leaving is going to be the first step in him feeling better, even though Ive repeatedly told him I'd support whatever it is he needs to work through.
