Yes listen to Sandi, I still struggle with detachment, just when I think I have it I get my panties in a bunch over something that happens. I just read her last post to you and has deterred me from confronting about something that just happened.

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019