One thing I have come to really believe and realise is people who love you, love you for who you are inside!!!!!!! Thats not to say that there can't be some improvement on the outside. Heck, 90% of people in this country are not happy with the way they look. But if your H is basing his non-desire on the way you look, then I have to say he has a real problem. If you have lost weight and it hasn't made him look at you in a different light, then maybe he should go to C and figure out what his "real" issues are.
