Sandi, it seems that your H dropped the rope on you? If so, how did he end up changing his mind to where he wanted to R with you? I ask because I am at the point where I have no desire to R with my WW. I am actually repulsed by her. I don't want to talk to her, be around her, nothing. I couldn't imagine ever being in love, close or intimate with her again. I just can't.
You would have to ask him that question.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
