Lost.... Please, please, please do not do it. It is pressure and pressure will push him away. Take it from me. Every time my H moved towards me the least little bit, I practically jumped on him. Every time we talked about our MR, I felt better BUT it pushed him further away from me. I will be divorced by the summer. Trust the people on this site, keep the focus on you and leave him to his own devices. I know this is hard but it is you only chance at this stage. (((HUGS)))
