Dealing with a WW and finding my happiness pt. 5

[SoTorn]

So work took an unreal turn today. OMG can my life get much worse?!?!?!

I have been busting my tail at work. Two people on the team I lead are having babies. So babies are a huge topic right now. One of them had their baby this last week.

That being said there are several men that have kids and sont want anymore or just dont want kids in my group.

I was having a casual conversation with a friend on my team about kids. I told my friend that I dont have to worry about kids again and that any girlfriend in the future would also not have to worry. My friend asked why and i told him that I got fixed. It turna out that he also had the procedure. So he was surprised that I had.

That being said, someone, I have no clue who, comolained to HR that I was making lewd comments and gestures or something so I got pulled into HR and asked what I talked about. After I explained the factual conversation that I jad that did not include any sexual comments, curse words or anything obscene otherwise, which was directed at my friend and in regards to both of us no longer wanting kids, I get told that I am being placed on paid leave for several days so that hR can investigate and they will call me to let me know the outcome.

I am completely blind sided by this. I know that talking about a procedure and making sure that I cant have children is not inappropriate at all. I said nothing inappropriate.

I dont even curse at work unless im outsode or in private with a close friend. So now i have to worry about my job of 17 years, where i have had zero complaints ever!!! WTF is going on?!?!

From what I could get I have been accused of being obscene and they kept asking if I was making hand gestures. I disnt gestire anything or talk about sex or anything at all. I dont know wtf this person is talking about!!

Why does all of this BS happen at once? I mean OMFG alresdy.