No worries Stander. Short story is a girl friend of mine told me "Hey my friend thinks you are hot" and showed me her picture to which I replied "tell you friend thank you for the compliment and I think she is hot also"

from there it went from social media to text to phone to FT...all moving along by her. we definitely want to meet, mom's have heard of each of us, please call her on Monday and then as of Tuesday...only text/bit of email. literally she's full throttle into me and then almost silence.

I really do appreciate the insight you've provided it's good for future reference for me. as has been my case with my WW and now here with this lady, I have no idea what happened. I never even with all of her interest in me, got to meet her, go on even the first date. even with what I'm doing now...she's gone and no way is she gonna try to even see me. I took a lady with seemingly solid attraction for me and completely lost her in less than 2 weeks with no idea how. story of my life with ladies. it would be terribly sad if it weren't so comically hopeless.

none of this makes ANY sense to me at all...going to the gym in the morning...just walking my path...

-B

Last edited by ballast; 02/02/19 12:07 AM.

Me:34 W:40
D1:4
M:7 T:8
BD:3/18
D Final: 6/19