Own your part and work on fixing your side of the street.
Originally Posted by LH19
Everyone on this board took things for granted. As time goes by you will truly understand your part in the deterioration of your marriage.
What bothers me (and hurts me) is that in the initial months after ILYBINILWY BD about a year ago, I began working on things in earnest. I did 180’s on a number of things, to try to work on the areas of unhappiness that she told me about.
Then in October, she told me that in her eyes, things weren’t getting better, she wasn’t happy, and what I did apparently wasn’t good enough.
While only a few months of 180’s may not have been enough, I hoped that it would have been a start. I guess not.
Originally Posted by LH19
Things will get better I promise you.
In time, yes. I also know that things will get worse before they get better. It’s just difficult to see a good future right now, though.
