In order for reconciliation to work, the wayward has to really want it. If he wants it bad enough he will pay child support.
My ex did the same exact thing to me. I used to post as julieh and I wrote all about it. He was trying to get me to not file by stringing along reconciliation. Filing for child support was the absolute only thing i did right. It helped me financially and established me as primary custodial parent.
You can always keep money on side and reinvest if things are right between you.
Talk to a lawyer. DO NOT JUST GIVE UP CS. Once you give it up, he can quit his job and work under the books and then would have to give u nothing right?
