My parents know she has been living with her parents. I don't think anyone knows the details regarding OM from work. I haven't told my parents about that, as I want to keep those details between my W and I, if possible. I do that mostly for my own sanity because I don't feel like discussing it with them. I also don't want things to be awkward if we do recon in the future. I know it sounds like I'm protecting her from her choices, but at the end of the day she is the mother of my children and I don't want to speak ill of her to others.
I would think it would be awkward pretending like things are fine when they are not. But that is just me.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712