Stander...no, we have not gone out yet. she is long distance.
Oh wow, did I ever misunderstand what was going on, LOL! Early on I learned it's a waste of time texting someone a lot before meeting them. I did it a few times only to discover the person I met was far different than the one I thought I was texting (I'm not saying I was catfished, it was more a case of them just being very different than I imagined). You will never know if the chemistry is there until you meet them. Texting and a thousand pictures cannot tell you what 5 minutes face-to-face will. Plus a lot of women these days just want to have text buddies, especially younger women. I don't get it, but that's how it is. I always pushed to meet right away. If they refused and said "let's get to know each other by text first" then I told them the above, that meeting for a few minutes would tell us far more than texting. If they still refused then I wished them well and moved on. I live near Dallas so there are a ton of women here, so I didn't bother talking to anyone outside of about a 30 mile radius. So if they were open to meeting I could usually make it happen quickly.
