Back in 08 when I was going through my sitch, my kids were:
S9
S7
D5

I fought for 50/50 parenting. Nothing else mattered.

Now:
S19
S18
D16

S19 is off in college, other two are still on 50/50 parenting scheduled.

I also live full time with my lady and D16. Bio Dad is out of state. I do all the dad things for her. I got to enjoy teaching her to ride a bike, drive a car.......

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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