My parents know she has been living with her parents. I don't think anyone knows the details regarding OM from work. I haven't told my parents about that, as I want to keep those details between my W and I, if possible. I do that mostly for my own sanity because I don't feel like discussing it with them. I also don't want things to be awkward if we do recon in the future. I know it sounds like I'm protecting her from her choices, but at the end of the day she is the mother of my children and I don't want to speak ill of her to others.