LBH Looking for Help and Guidance

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The WW tries to convince themselves any way possible that they havent done anything wrong. My WW is exactly the same way. She "claims" that she didn't sleep with OM until after she moved upstairs and that it isn't an affair because we were "separated". I clarified that I know she slept with him before she moved upstairs and that we weren't separated. I told her she is having an affair and that is the bottom line and I don't want to hear anymore BS excuses about it.