That is exactly what I told my WW Sandi. Yes she was shocked, but she absolutely refused to change her ways. Instead she just got extremely judgmental and critical of everything I do.
I was stunned that my H would not want to be friends with me, but I did not change my ways. I mean, he's just an easy-going nice guy! It was hard to imagine him not being my friend after leaving him for another man.
I did not change my ways, either, until later when I decided to do the right thing.
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It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
