LH...appreciate the comments. I think for guys it's that we look at what makes sense to US, but never try to understand what works and makes sense for ladies. Just like with why WWs are/get how they are, in dating ladies have perspectives/wants/needs/etc that are different and perhaps seem illogical to us guys.
I can see how my night/morning texts every day take away from the excitement, mystery, attraction she might feel towards me. in essence i'm smothering her and taking away from her all of the things that she needs to become comfortable with me and grow her attraction for me. letting go/backing off i think will really allow her to feel safer with me. that Corey guy talks about having the mindset where ladies approach us men like cats. if we are stable, no sudden crazy movements, etc the more they are willing to come towards us and check us out. just alot of dynamics that don't make sense right away until you read about them and really have time to understand the logic...and realize you were doing things wrong.
anyway...no matter what at least I can say I am continually learning to become a better man, possible partner someday and I'm happy about that.
