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Friends is a nice place too
My friend and her XH that I spoke of are good friends
Her goal was always to help him especially so he could be there for the adult children they have together
and he is a much better father because of their friendship

Its great you took the risk to open the door just to see if nothing else but to forgive him
I would love to have the opportunity to forgive xh face to face-and even help him if possible
I am totally done and have moved on in another R, but still want the best for him

As far as them Affairing down- that seems to be a recurring theme among most MLcers

and I know my xh gave up everything inside and out for his OW who he married-
He gave up his sobriety of over 20 years with her, His home, kids, business, family and friends
No one liked her and his family shunned her
last I heard from her in a message recently that he ruined her/his life and wants to ship him back?
I didn't respond-

You will make the best choices for you