Ok I will wait for him to bring it up, if he ever does again. So far he hasn't mentioned the divorce since the first time he brought it up 3 weeks ago. I think he's even afraid to say the word divorce because all he said was "we should go our separate ways".
Originally Posted by svdad
No kids right? Just chiming in saying to keep it up and stay strong. Listen to the wisdom coming from these guys/gals on this forum.
No, we don't have any kids. Just a dog that I'm going to miss dearly, maybe more than my husband (haha) since he is adamant that the dog stays with him.
Originally Posted by DejaVu6
Lost... DBing would say you never bring it up and just wait for him to do it and then listen and validate as much as you can. Is this move to where your family is a permanent move? What are you hoping for if anything? Or have you given up hope?
The move back would be temporary at first. One of the things I put on hold when my husband and I met was getting my masters. I kind of dropped everything to move with him, and once I got here, we talked about it and decided I couldn't afford to go to graduate school. SO part of GAL for me is going back to school and getting my masters because I've been putting it off for so long. I figured it would give him two years (with breaks in between because its school after all) to think about things. In the end, I'll be able to make more money for us, OR if he's not interested, I'll just keep all the money to myself and its a win-win for me?
I just need something that makes me happy and gives me something to focus on and I think this would be helpful.
