I told him about new BF. He just wanted to reconnect, he says, and he respects my choices and not asking to come back. He just wanted to talk. He said i was the only person who ever understood him. We've talked a lot about what happened. I think he just wanted to apologize and knew that I'd moved on. (of course seeing if there was a chance perhaps) But he knows me. He knows I won't mess up what I have now. He's still lost in the depression. It is sad to see. I learned more about what happened, and more about OW. Oh boy did he affair down. And paid for it times ten.
