typical WW on my hands

[SteveLW]

sv, my wife also said she didn't want my money. She also said she wanted me to keep the house. I eventually told her we were splitting everything 50/50. Money. Retirement funds. Selling house and splitting equity. I told her this was only fair.

WWs in particular try to ease their own conscience. Not wanting the H's money is one of the ways they do that. Don't be greedy, even in mediation insist she get her fair share. Sometimes a little guilt will jar them out of their fog.