Look, a man gets to set rules at his house. If he's married, he makes those rules with his W.

Here's some rules of my house:
-shoes off at the door
-don't touch the walls unless you're coming back to paint
-roughhousing kids play outside/in unfinished basement

Was your W just have no way of telling this woman "no" to anything? Why are y'all the babysitter and cafe for this woman and her rugrats? Is your W aware of the budget? Maybe you can tell your W that you don't mind if she has friends over but that you have a budget for a reason. I'm surprised she left over this. Is there more to it?

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.