typical WW on my hands

[ovrrnbw]

See a L for a consultation

Educate yourself about the process

This is just for you

Not to educate your spouse

Do not let her know you went



Just want to echo what others have said

You are still early in your journey

Your feelings will change over time

No idea what will happen

So just focus on you and kids




I got that speech three years ago

I am still married

Thanks Gordie. 3 years ago eh? wow. My W is ummm what you might say 'strong willed'. When she makes up her mind she more or less does not go back/change it. I would be surprised if this sitch lasts 3 months (including the current 1 month since BD).

Yea, they are all gung ho at first. Some people add more pressure and some people give space. And the old saying is to believe nothing they say and only half of what they do. Plenty of people recon after divorce too.