My w is as strong willed as they come

She said she wanted a d

And to marry OM

She pursued it

She filed

We negotiated an agreement

Then she changed her mind

Be open to the fact that you do not know the future

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving