See a L for a consultation

Educate yourself about the process

This is just for you

Not to educate your spouse

Do not let her know you went



Just want to echo what others have said

You are still early in your journey

Your feelings will change over time

No idea what will happen

So just focus on you and kids




I got that speech three years ago

I am still married

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving