Commenting on the part where you said she will be spoiling it with her lies. I know I have a hard time with his too, I'm left in the dark with my wife and sometimes I wished I would know concrete info to mKe some sense of it. You already know what you do so all of this is pretty much reflective of how you control your feelings. 1and3 she's going to be there. Imagine her there already and imagine how you want to be for the kids. Let her do her thing if she wants to tag along but spend that awesome time with the kids. How about from now until then the focus is not on her, how her lies make you feel this way or that, you alrdy know what you know, it won't be new info. Spend time planning how you want to spend those wonderful days with the kids. Just a suggestion. Show her you are moving on.
I don't know best way to deal with her current lying except if you're up front , stop MC, stop pretending, but don't stop living with your kids.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current
