I think I am to the point I am not trying to get any closer.
The relation ship is broken. Only you have the power to fix it. Your job is to not push her away , but rather attract her back.
Unless you are not trying to save the marriage.
Obviously best case scenario is she finds herself, gets through this MLC and A (if she is having one), wakes up, and works on our relationship and we end up better than ever. Honestly - I think while possible is slim at this point since she is full on wanting divorce so fast. I am focusing my efforts on me, and my future with my kids.
Yeah I thought that too. In the beginning. R2C is trying to tell you to STOP focusing on her. If SHE wakes up. If HER MLC ends. If HER A ends. If SHE is willing to work on the relationship. BLAH BLAH BLAH
Where are the I and me statements. You can only control one person on this ball of carbon......and she ain't it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
