Into The Great Wide Open

[DonH]

Ballast I don't think I've posted to you before but when I saw how fast you were jumping in I had the same reaction as ginger. I see this so much here. The LBS is so hurt and so broken up that anyone who shows interest helps to heal those wounds. It's just a bad bad idea. The rule of no dating for 6 months minimum if not a year is a great one, yet many don't want to heed it. They then rationalize how they've been done for six months (even though they have not) and all of the reasons why this 6 month rule should not apply to them. Could you really be a healthy partner right now? Honestly? And why let someone else decide your life? She came in so you just had to go with it? Why? Now she pumps the breaks so only then are you slowing down because she forced it? Why can't you decide these things? It's because it's too soon.

When in it we really can't see it. When outside we can. The last thing you need right now is some girl 15 years younger two hours away. Sure it feels great but it won't help you in the long run. And lightening speed is an understatement. You are whole and good and worthy without soneone. Take the time for you. Don't get into a new R so soon