I don't want you to give up. I just want you to understand that from this point forward all your decisions should be made from a place of strength and for what is best for Bo and his children.
Thanks. I don’t want to give up, either....but I feel now like things are hopeless for my MR (current feelings, I know). Of course I realize that the current MR is dead—whether I have MR 2.0 with W, or someone else down the road.
I go back and forth on what I want—do I want a future with W? How seriously do I want to consider recon and piecing?
But I’ve been trying to operate from a mindset of thinking what is best for me and the boys.
Originally Posted by LH19
You are so young and have your entire life ahead of you. You will bounce back from this I promise you. I know you don't believe it now but this was probably a blessing in disguise.
Keep your chin up.
I’m repeating myself here, but....I sometimes wonder if she’s doing me a favor that this is happening when I’m 35, instead of 45 or 55.
I hope I’ll bounce back—I just get the feeling that the next few months (at least) are going to be rough. I also hope the changes that I make in myself will be permanent / long-lasting.
How would you say that this could be a blessing in disguise?