So I'm frustrated IF I actually having any dating sense or clueless IF I don't...
The whole one/two text deal...makes me feel like the primary way we had to communicate day to day has dried up. Very mechanical now from how it was pre "Overwhelming" By that I mean..."How was your day?" <time_passes> "it was pretty good" <time_passes> "how was your's?" <time_passes> "could have been better" And while I enjoy any communication with her, this back and forth is boring and gonna kill any excitement we might have between us over time.
so last night she's out to dinner with the girl who connected us. getting close to the time I need to sleep and while we've done the tennis text, she hasn't called me and I not her. so in my mind i wandering if she is like "will he call me, why hasn't he called me" as we've not talked, i decide just before bed to call...it goes to immediate VM even though she is tennis chatting me. she texts me "LOL I'm drunk" "I don't want to talk while I'm drunk ok?" Now to me that makes no sense, but it is her feeling/wish and I respect it, so a single text back "ok, I understand"
deal is I don't really...as much as i've drunk talked/dialed/texted/whatever i personally don't get it and that was going to be our one chance to speak that day, BUT I guess maybe with the alcohol maybe she'd say something she doesn't want me to hear?
anyway i'm frustrated...for the first 10 days of knowing each other I thought we had wonderful open communication on text/phone...now I'm "robot world" with text, she has basically stopped calling, but she is still calling me hon/sweetie on text, says she's excited about us and other good things...this morning i decided not to text her good morning, hope you have a good day. i've been doing that every morning for like a week and i'm just thinking that being so reliable is gonna get me good guy zoned/no challenge/no need for pursuit from her and maybe that everyday is a bit much. i really do like her a great deal especially how we've communicated up to now...just feeling frustrated because I don't feel we have a way to get to know one another like we did initially.
